As a whiskey intern I am currently learning how to do sensory evaluations of bourbon. The tasting notes can be quite detailed, and the process has — for me — applicable takeaways for dating and meeting people. Cleanse your palate. Keep an open mind. Give it a chance to open up. Reserve judgment until the third sip.
So, back by popular demand, my Fun Friday handy dating infographics have returned, this time inspired by bourbon tasting.
What’s Good for Drinking…

I have a lot of experience drinking bourbon, but not tasting it for a sensory evaluation. That takes patience and an open mind. You don’t start to evaluate until you’ve cleansed your palate, and taken three sips. Before taking the first sip you look at and smell the bourbon. You don’t make any judgment on the first sip because your tongue is just getting used to the alcohol. You chew the second sip to open up the flavor in your mouth. On the third sip you start noting contrasts.


…Is Good For Dating
I started thinking (after many, many sips of bourbon) these bourbon-tasting steps could be adapted and applied to dating. Check this out:
Cleanse your palate of any old relationship crap and expectations. Keep an open mind. Give a connection a chance to open up. Reserve judgment until the third date.


I think I may be on to something. What do you think? I definitely didn’t apply this in my 20s. But in my late 50s and early 60s I changed the way I think about dating, and I’m enjoying it.
I’m really enjoying my bourbon tastings, too. Happy Friday!
All images from thehotgoddess.com retired_rewired_inspired.
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Yeah! It smelled very awful to be honest when I took the first sip. The tongue was not used to it. I had experienced it only two-three times. I don’t get much involved into alcohols. Enjoy your time, Cheers!
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Yes, it can take some getting used to. Thank you for reading😊
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Sounds like you are having lots of fun.
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I am really enjoying this homework!
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I am hoping you meet someone who sweeps you off your feet in the first sip 🙂
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Awww, thank you my friend!❤
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Amazing! Brilliant, love this! Just from my own personal experience, your rules totally applied to my current love. I wasn’t sure about him on first, second, even third date. Had lots of superficial judgements at first but continued to be open. It all changed with the first kiss (taste) on the third date! It was magical and emotional and my perspective completely flipped after that. We’re celebrating 3 years in August and I’ve never been so happy, secure, loved, and in love in a relationship 💖😊 Loved this article!
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Oh I love your story, Libby! Very inspiring, and I am so happy for your happiness and upcoming three-year anniversary! Goddess love!💖💫😊
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The bourbon tasting part was insightful 🙂
And you just spilled your dating strategy, now everyone knows about the question paper for the exam 😛
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LOL! 😁😁 Oops!
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I love what you did there! Perfect analogy!
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Thank you! So happy you enjoyed the post!❤
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You are on to something. May you find the perfect blend of dating and bourbon.
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Thank you, Geoff! Practice makes perfect? 😊❤
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I had no idea that these are the kinds of things you’d be learning at Bourbon Summer School; but the knowledge seems invaluable! Love the video.
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That’s a great internship you landed. Your dating/bourbon tasting analogy is perfect.
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Thank you for reading and taking time to comment! I am having fun with the internship.
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